Hi Chrissey,
I was 23 when I had my takedown. I think it took around 6 months to a year to get in the groove. You will get the rhythm. It's a really hard process for young women to go through. I know it can't be easy for the guys either, we just have a lot going on in the area. If you ever want to private message me I would be happy to chat further about anything you would like. Despite the fact I am having a bit of trouble at the moment, I have done really well with the pouch. I have travelled, got my masters degree, married and hope to eventually have a baby
I am really overall happy with it, but it was most definitely a bumpy road in the beginning. Hang in there, Kate