Hi All,
I'm 31yo about 9 years post J-pouch construction/colectomy and in the past few years my health has gotten worse. By no means is it bad, but I need to take off more sick time, and I hate how much my co-workers are getting to know about my poop!
What have others done in regards to getting people to understand that they have a chronic condition that is, for the most part, invisible. I actually had a good conversation with my direct supervisor (after she confronted me about taking too much sick time), but this week I pushed myself to go into work when I should have called in sick. (Also, of note, my sick time and vacation time are one in the same, so it's really no fun to take time off that could be spent on vacation!)
I also went to the doctor this week when usually I just know I need rest, bland diet, and some time. I think I will start going to the doctor more to document my illness in case it becomes an issue with HR.
Any other recommendations? Does a disability designation help? I've never felt the need to pursue this but it is starting to make me wonder. I've recently been applying for new jobs (not because of this issue, ready for a change) and some of the government jobs ask about a disability. I don't say yes because I don't want it to affect me being hired, but I do feel disabled in terms of a NEED to use the bathroom with urgency, frequency, and accessibility).
Thanks in advance!
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