Hi All!
Its been awhile since I've posted and things have gotten much better since the last time I posted. I have a date for my take down surgery (June 22, 202) at Yale-New Haven with Dr. Reddy and I am a little concerned for several reasons.
My first surgery and a the few weeks after were complete HELL for me. My anxiety level was through the roof because of Covid 19. First week home I found out my next door neighbor (Duplex house) had it, my appliances kept leaking and I had to figure out how to change it on my own, my insurance changed after one visit and I was no longer covered for an ostomy nurse. The first nurse after the change of insurance told me that I knew more about this process than her. Didnt help with my anxiety level but I called and got a nurse that was more helpful and talked me off the ledge several times....LOL. things git better after that, thank God!
Now with the second surgery, I needed to lose more weight, Dr. Reddy wanted me down to 145 lbs and I was 166 at the time but only made it to 160 and exercise level is non existent because I am not sleeping well with the ileostomy bag because I am side/stomach sleeper. I have fat deposits in my small intestine and Dr. Reddy says that if it isn't gone by the time of the second surgery I will have trouble getting the pouch to expand (anxiety returning, LOL)
Questions: How long, on average, does it take to gain a decent amount of control with the J-Pouch? My biggest fear is being in public and having an accident. (I once witnessed one on someone else when I was on vacation). I was told that it takes about 1 year from the day of the take down. True??
What is the control level like right after surgery?
Why can't I eat nuts, raspberries, strawberries, raw fruits and veggies after 1st surgery when the small intestine passed them okay before surgery. What changed?
Thanks, guys for your answers in advance......