I am 22 and have had UC now for 9 years. Since January of this year I have not found medication that has worked. I was on Simponi for about 2 months and in January I had an awful flare. From then on I've gone from medication to medication and keep having to go on prednisone. For the first time these flares caused me to have accidents to the point where I was afraid to leave the house. If I did leave the house I brought with a bag everywhere I went with wipes, towels, new pants and underwear. It was awful. Then in May I had to go to the hospital due to arthritis pain-I couldn't even walk. My GI said at the rate I was going through medications and having to continually going on prednisone it was time to consult with a surgeon about the J-Pouch surgery.
The surgeon I'm going with does the J-Pouch surgery in 3 steps because from his experience there are less complications and it lets you heal better. So the first step is to remove my colon and create an end ileostomy. The second step is to remove the rectum, create a loop ileostomy and the creation of the j-pouch. The third and final surgery would be laparoscopic and the j-pouch would be attached and begin to function. He leaves 3 months in between each surgery.
I am petrified. I've made pros and cons lists over and over again and the pros always win. I get it, it's better to do the surgery now when my UC is sort of stabilized and it's not emergency. No more medications for UC for the rest of my life, no food restrictions (I understand there still may be some), no more unexpected flares. I could have a "normal" life! (I say "normal" because I'll never be like a person with a healthy colon haha)
I guess what I'm looking for is some encouragement that life is better after surgery. That going through surgery was worth it-going through the pain and hospital stays was worth it. The thing is I'm 22, I haven't had children yet and this is just scary at this age. So please, send me some encouragement stories. Thank you in advance for you help!
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