Agree with you both. I did get some insurance early on, but I've never been able to increase it. Worked in one state where job had a great policy that was just a benefit. The job was awful; the benefits were great. I wonder if you can just keep inquiring and meanwhile, maybe just save as much as you can - (obvious, I know) - as in - no new cars, etc. - that money goes into fund for your family? I look back at money I spent all my life on things I did not need and I'd have a fortune now if I didn't spend it on new cars, etc. I know that does not solve the problem immediately, but it might make you feel you are taking some control of your situation.