Some people (myself included) find Calmoseptine irritating, not soothing. It has menthol which is supposed to feel cooling but it was more of a burning sensation for me. I used plain A&D ointment.
My must have items were SOFT toilet paper, a bidet seat, a travel pack of wet wipes for when I left the house, and lots of soft, low residue foods. Greek yogurt is my #1 fave for recovery because it has a lot of protein and you don't have to worry about chewing.