Now that I am in between surgeries and getting my health back, it has started to perk up a little. It's too bad that now that I finally want it, I can't have sex for another few months!! (Maybe I should NOT start reading that 50 Shades of Grey novel I just downloaded on my Kindle, LOL. Hey, don't judge - just wanted to see what all the fuss was about!) And even when I am able to finally have sex, after I recover from my take-down, it might be painful or uncomfortable.
I am a single female, which means I don't have a partner to be understanding and gentle and go through that process with me. When I do get approved for sex, I'm considering experimenting with a dildo/vibrator first to see if I have any issues before going trolling. Has anyone else done this? Any thoughts on the matter?
. Haven't tried dildos, but that's not a bad idea once you're cleared for more rigorous activity (I think it's 6-8 weeks post op, but might want to check with your dr)
