Hi,
I haven't been on here in a very long time. Even though I always told myself I would stay on to encourage others around how well I was doing (great pouch, successful pregnancy, etc), but life got busy and I didn't.
Of course now, I am having difficulties and am looking for support and advice on what to do - and this is where I always turn.
I have been dealing with what I thought was a bartholin glad issue for over a year (also had a similar issue right after take-down, but it seemed to heal after the drain). After it got so bad last summer, after seeing multiple doctors who said 'be patient', I finally had surgery by a GYN ONC to remove these bartholin glands and the surrounding infection this past March. Once she got in there, it was determined that that wasn't the issue at all - I had fistulas!
So the GYN ONC tried to help and close these fistulas, leaving me to recover from a much more major surgery, as if I had a 4th degree tear during labor. My body didn't react well at first at all (distended stomach, loss of appetite), but after a few weeks everything seemed to be working again - problem solved. Luckily, it has been checked again that I don't have Crohns...which is wonderful on many accounts, one especially being that I may have not recovered from what that other doc did.
Sadly, what she did didn't fix it at all. Around four months later, the fistulas were back. I have received a few opinions, but the one I got on Monday was that I didn't need a seton - I'm draining just fine, but that I should go to the best at CC and have revision surgery on my pouch.
I was brave once with my stoma/bag - I really never wanted to go there again. Has anyone had fistulas (mine seem to be from my 'rectum' area to just below my vaginal opening)? I don't want to leak in that area forever, but the idea of a bag again scares me. What if they can't reconnect? I don't know if I would rather just leak than have a bag forever.
I haven't been to CC yet, so we'll see what they say, but I'd love to go in there with good questions. IE LIFT surgery, TPN, anything else to fix the fistula without having a stoma...
Has anyone had one of these and still successfully had children after? I have one kid, but would love another...
Thanks for listening to me ramble. I'd love any insight.
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