All I can do is send many virtual hugs your way. I don't really know what to say other than I would imagine it will take at least a month before you regain any control. Keep doing the anal exercises? I hope for the best for you.

I am so sorry Hope,
Not fair!
The only thing that I can think of is that the swelling in the region + the pain is doing this to you and that once the swelling is down (which means that some of the pressure is off too) then you should regain control...there honestly shouldn't be any long term incidence on the pouch for an abdominal hernia repair...not the same region...just give it time and do what you have to do to protect your clothes and bed in the mean time.
I know that it is so frustrating.
Hugs for now
sharon

Thanks so much, you guys. Just another surprise in j pouch freedom, I guess. I was a little better last night but I think you are right about the pain. I have so much pain and pulling I do not think I am able to relax enough and push enough. I am going to try to keep an eye on my medication time because I do not like taking meds. I think I am going to long without it. Thanks for the hugs......really appreciated!