I strongly did not want an ileostomy either. Nobody does. But I have one and I have no issues. I would have had issues if I had converted my pouch to anything.
The thing in all these discussions that bothers me the most I guess.... And I am guilty of it too.... Is the all out avoidance of wearing an appliance. No matter what we do we are altering our bodies to do something it's not supposed to do. But the big thing is finding what is right for each individual. I don't regret trying a j Pouch. Would have regretted not trying it. But I paid a big price for it with my health and mental state. Now that all is gone I can see it clearly now.
Wearing an appliance is not a disability.
It's a badge of honor showing what I went through to get healthy and back on my feet. And it is also an option to all the misery people suffer that come to this board. I know. I came to this board looking for advice. While suffering greatly. But... I found my way out. An ileostomy. And I am proud of it. Not ashamed. And I certainly do not have any issues with it. I had alot of issues with a pouch.
Richard.
P. S.
As of now. I don't see any issues of importance coming up with my new way of pooping. I don't even have to go to a Dr anymore. I am done with them.
I have an internal staple coming out. But that's no big deal. I can pull it when it gets a little further out. But as for issues of my stoma or appliance. I'm done. No Dr's.. Meds.. Tests... Scans... I have moved on quite nicely in the past five months. And that even surprises me.... Every day!
I am embracing it after avoiding it.