hi guys I've posted before but have been a bit quiet as my husbands grandad who was very ill passed away, it's been a really sad time for everyone, and the funeral is going to take place next week.
ive been having major problems and they are getting worse as the days progress. I had my takedown only 6 weeks ago but the issues aren't getting better and infant getting a little worse.
1. I've got so much constant pressure on the anus, and then more severe pain comes in waves which I have to come to a standstill for until it passes, but more recently it isn't passing and i have to go to the loo, the pain is intense, and I have to clench for dear life, as of yesterday when i went to the loo I leaked stool, (and this is worrying me, because I seem less and less able to hold anything in)which hasn't happened since the takedown not even in the hospital straight after the operation. The pressure feels like a burning ball stuck in the anus! And when the intense pressure isn't there then it still feels like a ball is stuck in my back passage.
2.im going to loo about 15 plus times a day,last night I was going pretty much every hour, but the next issue is when I go to the loo nothing much comes out, then i involuntarily strain which causes bleeding. I'm having to use my hand and with tissue almost pull apart the Anus to let anything pass it just won't do it unless I help it doing! I never feel empty at all,the bleeding Is not really in the stool in the bowl from what I've seen, but more so on the tissue mixed in the stool.
3. Gas is causing me issues, I could pass it lying down initially now I can't do that either
if it is a structure, can it be fixed? I don't want to have to use a catheter to empty. When they dialate the structure does it effect the sphincter muscles? Do they become Weeker? As I've been told mine are already not great.
i normal is not term that fits the bill anymore,but it any of this 'normal' at this stage? I'm really worried and then there's added pressure from the family together better and stay better, as though I'm not trying!
Any help snd advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks so much in advance
sally xxx