3 weeks is a lot...I usually have bad nausea the first few days (then again morphine give me nausea too) but it dissipates by the end of the 1st week.
Could it be the anesthetic? Any pain meds that you are taking? Something different that you are doing other than the obvious???
Dehydration can also give you nausea and dizziness + headaches, the shakes and weakness in the legs etc
When I would get post op nausea more than a week post op it would signal the begining of an ileus (blockage)...but if your pouch is working fine then no other ideas.
Hope you find the cause of it and get it taken care of.
Sharon