Skip to main content

I had the subtotal colectomy with end ileo last Oct. Now facing next surgery--getting the j-pouch or making the end ileo permanent. Not an easy decision. I've read countless online posts about the anxiety this decision creates and now it's my turn--and yes, I'm anxious.  I've adapted to the ileo but since I've got to have another major surgery one way or the other--and have it soon--the pressure is on. So I created a T-Chart comparison and would love your feedback. Let me know what else you would add, or if some of my comparisons need to be tweaked. BTW, I'm 62 next week and realize I'm at the top of the age bracket for a j-pouch, but I'm an active guy and a new grandfather.  

One more thing, I've got a consultation with a surgeon at the Cleveland Clinic next week, so your critique of my T-Chart will be helpful. Thanks in advance. Here's the chart:

PERMANENT END ILEOSTOMY

J-POUCH

 

 

Will need one more major surgery to remove rectum and possibly revise stoma.

Will need one more major surgery to remove rectum and create the j-pouch; and three months later will need another surgery (takedown) to activate the j-pouch and close the stoma opening.

Physical appearance – will have a bag attached to abdomen 24/7.

No external visual sign except scars on abdomen.

Ileostomy is permanent—no reversal possible.

J-pouch can eventually fail, leading to another surgery to remove the j-pouch and create a permanent end ileostomy. However, studies show j-pouch success rate is approximately 90%.

Rectal cancer risk should be nonexistent.

Rectal cancer risk is extremely low.

Parastomal hernia (beneath stoma) risk is high.

Hernia risk is low; same as before surgeries.

Moderate risk of intestinal obstruction primarily resulting from poor diet choices (ER visits a possibility).

Lower obstruction risk (however, still need to be vigilant with diet)

Must stay hydrated, and increase use of electrolyte beverages.

Must stay hydrated, increase use of electrolyte beverages.

Low stricture risk

Higher stricture risk from scar tissue as a result of multiple surgeries (dilation or surgery to remove strictures is always a possibility).

Low risk of fistulas

Low risk of fistulas, but higher probability than with an ileostomy

No incontinence issues

Possibility of incontinence or rectal leakage

Skin irritation (itching and burning) always a possibility around stoma site. Treatment can take weeks to reverse.

Severe skin irritation (“butt burn”) an issue, but only during the first few months after surgery. Supposed to get better with time as anal skin adapts. Treatment is using creams/ointments and a hand-held bottle bidet and/or a toilet seat bidet ($300-$500).

No hemorrhoids (“back door” is sealed).

Hemorrhoid inflammation always a possibility.

Stoma prolapse or stoma ulceration is a possibility (treatment is stoma revision surgery).

Pouchitis or Cuffitis always a possibility resulting in high number of bathroom trips similar to a UC flare (treatment is antibiotics).

Need to purchase medical (ostomy) supplies rest of life, insurance does not cover everything so can be expensive.

Few medical supplies for j-pouch needed, if ever. In the beginning, there will be creams/ointments and maybe a bidet toilet seat.

Changing the pouch every 3-4 days can be stressful and inconvenient. Can create anxiety.

J-pouch can create anxiety with pouchitis and/or cuffitis flares.

Bag leaks are stressful (doesn’t happen often but always a threat). Must carry supplies everywhere just in case.

Leakage is rare. Can hold off need to empty for over an hour.

Need to empty bag 8 or more times per day/night.

Need to empty j-pouch 4-8 times per day/night and that’s after months of j-pouch stretching to accommodate more volume.

The bag is “in the way” when doing activities such as household chores, washing the car or exercising. Must use a wrap to hold the bag close to body.

No issues with a j-pouch.

Seatbelt – need a protector. Also when driving long distances, need to check the bag often for fullness and to adjust for easy flow.

No seatbelt issue, no issue with long driving--you will know (sensation) when the j-pouch needs emptying.

Dressing for work or play can be an issue – belts in particular, and pant waist must be oversize to accommodate a stoma guard and to keep bag from strangulating. Tying the right shoe or putting on right sock puts pressure on the bag when bending down. The bag feels like it could pop from the pressure.

No issue with clothing choices. Dressing is easy, same as before surgeries. Can wear regular sizes and not worry about the j-pouch.

Swimming and other activities can be a challenge. Could require special wraps and/or special bathing suit.

No issues with swimming and other activities.

Weightlifting/Gym workouts can pose issues—Must use caution with certain exercises. Dressing for the gym can be challenging in locker room.

Weightlifting/Gym can pose issues—must use caution with certain exercises (deadlifts in particular). Some forums say no lifting over 25 lbs., whereas others say it is an individual limit. No issue with locker room dressing.

Showering can be a challenge, particularly at the gym. “Wet bag” is uncomfortable after showering (temporary until it dries).

No issues with showering anywhere.

Original Post

Replies sorted oldest to newest

You are to be congratulated for doing your research on surgical options and putting it in a chart.  This is how I approach a major decision, but I did not make as detailed chart like yours when recurrent high grade dysplasia in the anal cuff made J pouch removal necessary.  The surgeon at Mayo Clinic who I saw for a second opinion only recommended an ileostomy, which I strongly did not want.  I did further research on the K pouch and similar BCIR and decided to get the BCIR.  The surgery went very well and I now have a very good quality of life.  This was the best decision for me.  I was 68 when I had my surgery and a few in their 70’s have also had it with good results.

I am in the process of adding a third column to your chart to include information about the K pouch and BCIR and will post it here when it’s done.  Not only will it give you information to review and discuss at your consultation at CC, but it will also be available for others faced with this difficult decision. 

Bill

I had my ileostomy for many years, good quality of life. especially compared to my time with UC and no issues other than appliance failure which was frustrating at the time.

I'm male and, I guess such surgery can be compared to child birth, as I'll happily go through it all again, if the outcome is a j pouch or it keeps the j pouch I've already got.

Recovery from J pouch creation surgery was hard and for maybe 2 or 3 days, I was even thinking I'd made a huge mistake.

My Takedown was in 2015 and although I remained in Hospital for maybe 4 days, I probably could have left Hospital straight after surgery; when I did leave, I had a 4 hour train journy to take.

Before my J Pouch, I had the same reservations as yourself, I didnt have any family support.

I've had a full functioning J pouch since 2015 and wouldn't have it any other way.

In regard to lifting a weight above 25lbs, I wouldn't worry so much; I think pouch Surgeons can't differentiate between lifting a weight above 25lbs and an Olympic dead lift.

I've done weight lifting since being 17/18 years old and I've attempted to returned to exercise after flare ups, although my illness and level of fitness normally put a swift end to it.

If you dont know already, a dead lift; is lifting a very heavy barbell weight from the ground, to thigh height, then jerking the barbell weight up to the chest and over the head.

Lifting a weight in such a manner requires a lot of bearing down of the core muscle groups.

I've lifted a gearbox above my head whilst laying on my back, carried young children, moved furniture and also a German Shepard dog over fence and without issues.

Last edited by Former Member

Bill, great idea about adding the third column re: the BCIR. 

Strange, thanks also for your reply. Loved the story about the gearbox. I had a dead car battery recently and just did what I always would have done--pushed it next to my wife's car so I could jump start it. Of course, later I realized how stupid that was and could have gotten a hernia. And then next bag change, I swore my stoma seemed longer. Can't win.

Unless, you've suffered from abdomen hernias in the past , there's no reason to believe that bowel surgery will increase the risk.

Yeah, the Stoma does change shape and size but I don't think due to strenuous activity, my Stoma was initially very close to my abdomen, so much so I had to use convex Stoma appliances but over time, my Stoma kinda grew, it was at least a half inch longer than it was originally.

Last edited by Former Member

in regards to hernias, if your abdomen is cut open you are at higher risk to develop them either way you go. I had a small one pop up at the old ileostomy site a few months after closure and had it repaired months ago. I also do have very slight leakage from time to time. and was also told by the top jpouch GI Dr Shen at the Cleveland Clinic that jpouchers should never lift more than 25 lbs.

I am on my second jpouch by the way....

Pouchomarx posted:

in regards to hernias, if your abdomen is cut open you are at higher risk to develop them either way you go.

Also told by the top jpouch GI Dr Shen at the Cleveland Clinic that jpouchers should never lift more than 25 lbs.

Pouchomarx, I disagree, I don't believe abdomen/bowel surgery increases the risk of developing a hernia.

I've had open abdomen surgery twice and to date, no hernia and I've been more active than most.

My Consultant and Surgeons have never said I'm at a greater risk of develping a hernia nor have I been advised not to lift a weight above 25lb.

I'm pretty certain there's many a weight lifter on this forum that will tell you they lift more

Last edited by Former Member

Short and sweet. 

58 years old. Colon removed. Pouch and temp ileo.  Miserable experience.  Two more emergency surgeries right after and eight weeks in the hospital.  Temp removed after a week and a half.  And I was hooked to my pouch. 

Sent home. Pouch was 26 months of misery. No need to go into a long story. 

60 years old. Big decision. Had it removed and have a permanent ileo and haven't looked back.  

I'll be 61 Saturday.  

I don't see Dr's. I don't take meds. My rear is not on fire anymore.  

I'm done. I live with what I have. And I'm happy again. 

Good list. 

But no matter how much thought is put into it there is always a twist. Pun intended. 

Good luck.  Only you can make the design that's right for you.  Of course you can get our opinions.  

They are both high maintenence items. Lol. 

R. 

As long as you're asking ;-).....I had a jpouch. Uncertainly, anxiety and stress for most of the four years with it. I've had a permanent ostomy for two and a half years. I am a fitness instructor, strong core then, strong core now. I am getting ready to teach my early evening outdoor pool class. I have done more in the two and a half years with my ostomy than I did in the four years with the jpouch. Like Richard said, no meds and food is a pleasure again. I may roll my eyes at my bag changes now (only because I don't want to put off my morning coffee to do so) but it's nothing compared to the true anxiety I felt wondering how my jpouch was going to behave and when the constant antibiotics I was on were going to stop working. I wanted peace and steady calm and I've gotten it. My gut (no pun intended!) told me what would be best for me and yours will tell you.

Hello, Jfill21.

What a fantastic job you have done on your chart! It is detailed and clear, very easy to follow, especially if someone is looking for information, trying to decide how to proceed, or anxious about what to expect. 

The problem I had with my temporary stoma was it retracted and was sometimes flush to the level of my skin. This allowed stool to flow over and onto my stoma skin and burn me. It made my skin raw and excoriated (I learned this new word when my nurse said, "Oh, your skin is excoriated".)  This is a drawback if the stoma is permanent and the surgeon didn't fit it with a temporary rod to pull it slightly up and away from the surrounding skin. I didn't have a rod (no one knew stoma would retract) and I was sent to reversal surgery weeks ahead of schedule because of the pain and raw skin turning purple, red, and bleeding. Similar to butt burn. Also, when my bag would fill up I could feel it sitting heavy against my stomach and I feared it might burst or fall off, which caused deep anxiety, especially away from home or standing in a check-out line! I wasn't an expert, although if I had to have it permanently I would have become one for sure. Another drawback would be the feel of a full bag, or the wafer, on hot, humid days. And possibly skin allergies to the adhesive on the wafer. Unless you wear loose clothing all the time, a full bag can be seen as a slight lump. I wore leggings during winter to keep warm and the lump could definitely be seen. 

There is always the cost factor, if you don't have adequate insurance coverage, and that cost can go on for decades.

I think your chart is excellent. It will help so many people new to this type of surgery. Thank you!

 

I had my surgeries starting in November 2015 and my takedown in August 2016.  I went through the 3 step process.  I had zero skin issues with both my ileostomies and have also adapted well.  I did have some leakage with the bag but only one incident at work.  

I will have my first pouchoscopy in the next month or so.  My next visit with my surgeon is the beginning of July.  Besides butt burn, and some leakage issues, things have gone well.  I guess I'm one of the lucky ones so far.  Btw, I had all three surgeries in my 60's.  I will be 63 this Fall.

I have attached JAYFILL21’s comparison chart to which I added a column for K Pouch and BCIR, which are similar procedures with the exception of a collar constructed of small section of intestine added to stabilize the valve.  The most common alternative to the end ileostomy is the J pouch, which is widely performed and has a high success rate.  I felt it appropriate to add the column for K Pouch and BCIR since these procedures also do not require an external bag.  Unfortunately, they are not well known by many surgeons and gastroenterologists who routinely recommend/offer only the end ileostomy.  Although few of these two options are performed as the primary surgery with a colectomy, they are usually performed for those with failed J pouches and problematic and undesired ileostomies.  The decision to select a surgical option is strictly a personal choice best made after doing your research and consulting with your surgeon.

Permanent End Ileostomy

J Pouch

K Pouch & BCIR

Will need one more major surgery to remove rectum and possibly revise stoma.

 Will need one more major surgery to remove rectum and create the j-pouch; and three months later will need another surgery (takedown) to activate the j-pouch and close the stoma opening.

One major surgery is usually necessary   whether as primary (colectomy to pouch), removal of J pouch or conversion from end ileostomy

Physical appearance – will have a bag attached to abdomen 24/7.

No external visual sign except scars on abdomen.

The only external sign is a button hole size stoma, flush with the skin and located below the belt line (lower than most end ileos).

Ileostomy is permanent—no reversal possible.

J-pouch can eventually fail, leading to another surgery to remove the j-pouch and create a permanent end ileostomy. However, studies show j-pouch success rate is approximately 90%.

The success rate for both procedures is about 94%, with failure defined as need to remove the pouch and revert to an end ileostomy.

Rectal cancer risk should be nonexistent.

Rectal cancer risk is extremely low.

Rectum is not present, so no cancer risk.

Parastomal hernia (beneath stoma) risk is high.

Hernia risk is low; same as before surgeries.

Hernia risk around stoma is very low, but easily corrected by surgery.

Moderate risk of intestinal obstruction primarily resulting from poor diet choices (ER visits a possibility).

Lower obstruction risk (however, still need to be vigilant with diet)

Low risk of intestinal obstructions, but when present, they are often caused by adhesions (present in any abdominal surgery).

Must stay hydrated, and increase use of electrolyte beverages.

Must stay hydrated, increase use of electrolyte beverages.

Must stay hydrated, increase use of electrolyte beverages.

Low stricture risk

Higher stricture risk from scar tissue as a result of multiple surgeries (dilation or surgery to remove strictures is always a possibility).

Stricture rate is related to stoma stenosis (narrowing of opening) and is not common.

Low risk of fistulas

Low risk of fistulas, but higher probability than with an ileostomy

Fistulas are not common and can occur in those with Crohn’s disease.

 No incontinence issues

Possibility of incontinence or rectal leakage

No incontinence issues.  Stool and gas are completely contained in the internal pouch.

Skin irritation (itching and burning) always a possibility around stoma site. Treatment can take weeks to reverse.

Severe skin irritation (“butt burn”) an issue, but only during the first few months after surgery. Supposed to get better with time as anal skin adapts. Treatment is using creams/ointments and a hand-held bottle bidet and/or a toilet seat bidet ($300-$500).

Skin irritation around stoma is very rare and easily treated with creams and ointments.  There is discharge from the stoma of a small amount of clear and non-caustic mucus, but this is absorbed by a small dressing used to cover the stoma.

No hemorrhoids (“back door” is sealed).

Hemorrhoid inflammation always a possibility.

No hemorrhoids (“back door” is sealed).

Stoma prolapse or stoma ulceration is a possibility (treatment is stoma revision surgery).

Pouchitis or Cuffitis always a possibility resulting in high number of bathroom trips similar to a UC flare (treatment is antibiotics).

Pouchitis is always a possibility resulting in the need to empty pouch more often.  It is customarily treated with antibiotic and/or probiotics.

Need to purchase medical (ostomy) supplies rest of life, insurance does not cover everything so can be expensive.

Few medical supplies for j-pouch needed, if ever. In the beginning, there will be creams/ointments and maybe a bidet toilet seat.

The only supplies needed are a silicone (plastic) catheter, stoma covers/dressings and lube for inserting the catheter.  Annual supply cost is usually under $200, and the catheters and some stoma covers may be covered by insurance.

Changing the pouch every 3-4 days can be stressful and inconvenient. Can create anxiety.

J-pouch can create anxiety with pouchitis and/or cuffitis flares.

No external hardware is needed. 

Bag leaks are stressful (doesn’t happen often but always a threat). Must carry supplies everywhere just in case.

Leakage is rare. Can hold off need to empty for over an hour.

Leakage is very rare.  Can hold off need to empty for over an hour.  There are no problems using public restroom, porta potties, or the woods if camping.  No change of clothes is ever needed.

Need to empty bag 8 or more times per day/night.

Need to empty j-pouch 4-8 times per day/night and that’s after months of j-pouch stretching to accommodate more volume.

The pouch is emptied with a small silicone catheter, 3-5 times a day at your convenience. The catheter is easily concealed in a small case, pocket or purse.  Emptying the pouch is painless and can usually be done in just a few minutes

The bag is “in the way” when doing activities such as household chores, washing the car or exercising. Must use a wrap to hold the bag close to body.

No issues with a j-pouch.

There is no external hardware present to cause problems doing any kind of activity.

Seatbelt – need a protector. Also when driving long distances, need to check the bag often for fullness and to adjust for easy flow.

No seatbelt issue, no issue with long driving--you will know (sensation) when the j-pouch needs emptying.

No seatbelt issue, no issue with long driving--you will know (sensation) when the pouch needs emptying and have sufficient tine to reach a restroom.

Dressing for work or play can be an issue – belts in particular, and pant waist must be oversize to accommodate a stoma guard and to keep bag from strangulating. Tying the right shoe or putting on right sock puts pressure on the bag when bending down. The bag feels like it could pop from the pressure.

No issue with clothing choices. Dressing is easy, same as before surgeries. Can wear regular sizes and not worry about the j-pouch

Can wear any clothing, including tight pants, swim suits, etc.  The stoma is located below the belt line and a stoma cover does not show through clothing.

Swimming and other activities can be a challenge. Could require special wraps and/or special bathing suit.

No issues with swimming and other activities.

No issues with swimming and other activities.

Weightlifting/Gym workouts can pose issues—Must use caution with certain exercises. Dressing for the gym can be challenging in locker room.

Weightlifting/Gym can pose issues—must use caution with certain exercises (deadlifts in particular). Some forums say no lifting over 25 lbs., whereas others say it is an individual limit. No issue with locker room dressing.

Weightlifting/Gym can pose issues—must use caution with certain exercises (deadlifts in particular). Your surgeon should be consulted regarding exercise and lifting limitations. No issue with locker room dressing

Showering can be a challenge, particularly at the gym. “Wet bag” is uncomfortable after showering (temporary until it dries).

No issues with showering anywhere.

No issues with showering anywhere.  The stoma cover is small and not conspicuous.

With the colon missing, absorption of certain vitamins and minerals may be impaired.  Periodic blood tests for iron, ferritin and vitamin B-12 are needed.  Never use time release medication or pills/capsules that will not dissolve in the stomach.

With the colon missing, absorption of certain vitamins and minerals may be impaired.  Periodic blood tests for iron, ferritin and vitamin B-12 are needed.  Never use time release medication or pills/capsules that will not dissolve in the stomach.

With the colon missing, absorption of certain vitamins and minerals may be impaired.  Periodic blood tests for iron, ferritin and vitamin B-12 are needed.  Never use time release medication or pills/capsules that will not dissolve in the stomach.

Can generally eat most foods you enjoy.

Can generally eat most foods you enjoy.  You may find that some foods may cause loose stools.  It is best to start with small quantities and see what produces the best results.

Can generally eat most foods you enjoy.  Many vegetables contain fibers that do not digest well and can clog the catheter when emptying the pouch.  It is easy, but inconvenient, to remove the catheter, remove the fiber and then re-insert the catheter. Everyone’s system is different, so experiment with small quantities to see what works best.

Hi, Jfill21.  I just want to add that a toilet seat bidet, the kind you attach to the seat, costs only $100 or so, not $300-500. Right now Amazon is having a sale on Luxe Bidet Neo 120 for only $35, down from their regular $90. That's a great deal for anyone who's been thinking of getting one to attach to the toilet seat. There is a tutorial video next to the item on Amazon showing how to install easily. I got one last year and it saved my butt, literally!

strange posted:
Pouchomarx posted:

in regards to hernias, if your abdomen is cut open you are at higher risk to develop them either way you go.

Also told by the top jpouch GI Dr Shen at the Cleveland Clinic that jpouchers should never lift more than 25 lbs.

Pouchomarx, I disagree, I don't believe abdomen/bowel surgery increases the risk of developing a hernia.

I've had open abdomen surgery twice, once during 2005 and then again during 2014 and till date, no hernia and I participate in more strenuous activities than most.

My Consultant and Surgeons, at  world renown St Marks Hospital, London, have never said I'm at a greater risk of develping a hernia nor have I been advised not to lift a weight above 25lb.

I'm pretty certain there's many a weight lifter on this forum that will tell you they lift more 

you can disagree all you want, but when your abdominal wall and muscles are sliced open, you are indeed at a higher risk for developing a hernia.

There must be thousands of Mothers who've had a Caesarean incision to give birth, who then go on to lift their baby as well as lifting older young children on a daily basis, children who can weigh a hell of a lot more than 25lbs

There's also thousands of Mothers who've had a C Section previously who, whilst expecting their new baby, also lift and carry young children on a daily basis as well as lifting and carrying bags of shopping.

Last edited by Former Member
strange posted:
Pouchomarx posted:

 Incisional hernia is a well-known long-term complication of abdominal surgery, with a reported incidence of 3.0–20.6% in association with midline incisions and 0–2.1% with lower transverse incisions

so lower transverse incisions(caesarian), were obviously lower chance of hernia, but still does increase risk

Yeah, you would say that.

 However, 12 years since my first abdomen surgery, based on my own experience of a few years of Muay Thai training, once I'd recovered and then nearly 8 years intensive self defence training as well as cycling, swimming, weightlifting, core muscle workouts, kicks throws, blocks, being kicked and thrown, lifting a gearbox over my head whilst laying on my back under a car, I'm more active than most and still no hernia.

So Pouchomarx, you can continue to spread doom and gloom and restrict your life through fear of developing a hernia and I'll continue to inspire and encourage people and live my life to the full, 

 

SERIOUSLY? I am not saying everyone will develop a hernia, but there are increased odds with these surgeries. I have been through a multiple number of surgeries and on my second j-pouch so I actually do know a little about what I am talking about. So am speaking from experience, thank you. Have a great day ..lol

Before this turns into a debate (as if it has not already become), let's get this hernia thing settled.

1. It is a fact that ANY abdominal surgery increases your risk of hernia, simply because incisional hernia is a known risk of abdominal surgery. Multiple procedures increases that risk further.

2. Having an increased risk does not mean you are likely to develop that complication. This just means risk as compared to the general population. It is sort of like having UC increases your risk of colon cancer. It does not mean you will get cancer.

3. Not developing a hernia is not proof of the absence of the risk. It is just anecdotal to that one person. It is like saying you have smoked for 20 years and never got lung cancer (yet) is proof that there is no risk associated with smoking. I had an incisional hernia and did not engage in anything strenuous other than ordinary life. Once repaired I continued with my active life.

4. Dr. Shen's lifting advice for j-pouchers is specific to him. It is not a universal, or even widely advised concept. Still, he is an expert in the field of j-pouches, so he acts with an abundance of caution. Not doom and gloom, just the fact that wierd stuff has happened.

Jfill21, you are doing a great job with your research and I am sure it will lead you to the choice that is best for you. I've never regretted my j-pouch, but I never have had an ileostomy to compare with!

Jan

Last edited by Jan Dollar

Doing the research is a great idea, too many of us just go by impulse and emotion to make this decision. Having said that, the problem is of course we can't know the outcome in advance and outcomes for this/these surgeries are very individual and vary tremendously. While statistics matter they are not determinative. I had a J pouch with many issues (including an incisional hernia) and now have an end ileostomy with almost no problems. That certainly doesn't mean a J pouch could not be a good choice, just my experience

 Comments on a couple of things on your list: I would note that I have never paid a cent for any of my ostomy supplies. I do have OK insurance, not Cadilac but decent. I am going onto Medicare soon and from what I have been told there will be no change. The other topic as far as activities go such as swimming, working out at gym, driving and so forth. I do not in anyway feel restricted.  Well maybe going to a nude beach might be a vanity issue. I am very active and still work in construction part time, travel a lot, the ileo is really not an issue at all, I have never used a stoma protector, wrap and so forth so I would say that part of your list is over blown. It is a minor issue. 

The key is to get a well formed stoma whose opening  extends above the skin line 3/4 of an inch or a bit more. This makes everything easy. Don't get me wrong it isn't perfect and I don't minimize the "visual " issues particularly for people that are dating or want to do so. 

 

Why would you even consider NOT trying a j-pouch because it MIGHT have complications.  I check this board maybe once a year and post a few times and then forget about it because I forget that I have a j-pouch.  That's how it is for most people.  The people who hang out on this board (for the most part) are the people who have had ongoing problems.  Because when you are living a normal life you don't spend your time on medical boards...that's just normal human nature.  When I had my colon out and was debating getting a j-pouch I was sick as a dog and spent a lot of time on here.  The people gave me hope and support but on the negative side reading all the problems people were having also almost scared me out of getting a j-pouch.  The temporary ileo/bag I had was a nightmare for me and the j-pouch has been a Godsend.  You better believe if my j-pouch ever fails I'll be back on here all the time for support...but till then like most people without problems...I'll either won't be on here or check in infrequently.  There are some people without problems who are on here all the time only to help others..but those are the rare truly selfless people who most of us aren't.  My surgeon told me that he never hears from the majority of his j-pouch patients again because they don't have problems.  He hears a lot from the minority that do have problems.  The best case scenario for a j-pouch is TOTAL NORMALCY - I have ZERO restrictions on my diet, ZERO restrictions on my activities.  The best case scenario for a bag is living with your intestines hanging outside your body, having to protect it constantly and change bags.  Why not go for the route with the best POSSIBLE outcome?  Yes you might have complications or have it fail but why let fear prevent you from going for the chance at a completely normal life?  This is all just one man's opinion based on my personal experiences.  I wish you the best no matter what you decide.

Last edited by Daleer

I agree with pretty much most of what Daleer says.  My own experience is that I never considered anything but the j-pouch and for me it has worked great so far.  I am glad I had the experience of having an ileostomy and at least know what I would be up against if things go wrong with my pouch.  I am of course new to this, so I probably come on often just to get ideas about diet etc.  But I don't really have any issues at all.  It is a big decision to make.  When I made mine, I never looked back.  There are pros and cons to everything.  Good Luck!

 

Man do I appreciate all these responses. I have my surgeon consultation at CC in two days--driving up tomorrow. I'm definitely leaning towards a j-pouch. Daleer--love your stark contrasts between the two options. It really does come down to that--maybe not everyone will relate or agree but you made me smile. And CTB23, we're about the same age and I love your attitude. Thanks to all. I'll post my experience at CC when I get back.

Daleer posted:

Why would you even consider NOT trying a j-pouch because it MIGHT have complications.  I check this board maybe once a year and post a few times and then forget about it because I forget that I have a j-pouch.  That's how it is for most people.  The people who hang out on this board (for the most part) are the people who have had ongoing problems.  Because when you are living a normal life you don't spend your time on medical boards...that's just normal human nature.  When I had my colon out and was debating getting a j-pouch I was sick as a dog and spent a lot of time on here.  The people gave me hope and support but on the negative side reading all the problems people were having also almost scared me out of getting a j-pouch.  The temporary ileo/bag I had was a nightmare for me and the j-pouch has been a Godsend.  You better believe if my j-pouch ever fails I'll be back on here all the time for support...but till then like most people without problems...I'll either won't be on here or check in infrequently.  There are some people without problems who are on here all the time only to help others..but those are the rare truly selfless people who most of us aren't.  My surgeon told me that he never hears from the majority of his j-pouch patients again because they don't have problems.  He hears a lot from the minority that do have problems.  The best case scenario for a j-pouch is TOTAL NORMALCY - I have ZERO restrictions on my diet, ZERO restrictions on my activities.  The best case scenario for a bag is living with your intestines hanging outside your body, having to protect it constantly and change bags.  Why not go for the route with the best POSSIBLE outcome?  Yes you might have complications or have it fail but why let fear prevent you from going for the chance at a completely normal life?  This is all just one man's opinion based on my personal experiences.  I wish you the best no matter what you decide.

 

 

It is natural to encourage people to go for the best case scenario....BUT also important to take into consideration how ok someone is with his current situation and how much potential surgery he's willing to go through. It's not so simple to remove a jpouch. Not to complicate things, but important to consider...

I'm so grateful that I got my best case scenario with my ostomy and that I don't view it as intestines hanging outside my body that I have to protect constantly. I suspect that description is directly related to your negative experience with yours and that would make sense. Our experiences directly affect our perspectives.

Lambiepie posted:
Daleer posted:

Why would you even consider NOT trying a j-pouch because it MIGHT have complications.  I check this board maybe once a year and post a few times and then forget about it because I forget that I have a j-pouch.  That's how it is for most people.  The people who hang out on this board (for the most part) are the people who have had ongoing problems.  Because when you are living a normal life you don't spend your time on medical boards...that's just normal human nature.  When I had my colon out and was debating getting a j-pouch I was sick as a dog and spent a lot of time on here.  The people gave me hope and support but on the negative side reading all the problems people were having also almost scared me out of getting a j-pouch.  The temporary ileo/bag I had was a nightmare for me and the j-pouch has been a Godsend.  You better believe if my j-pouch ever fails I'll be back on here all the time for support...but till then like most people without problems...I'll either won't be on here or check in infrequently.  There are some people without problems who are on here all the time only to help others..but those are the rare truly selfless people who most of us aren't.  My surgeon told me that he never hears from the majority of his j-pouch patients again because they don't have problems.  He hears a lot from the minority that do have problems.  The best case scenario for a j-pouch is TOTAL NORMALCY - I have ZERO restrictions on my diet, ZERO restrictions on my activities.  The best case scenario for a bag is living with your intestines hanging outside your body, having to protect it constantly and change bags.  Why not go for the route with the best POSSIBLE outcome?  Yes you might have complications or have it fail but why let fear prevent you from going for the chance at a completely normal life?  This is all just one man's opinion based on my personal experiences.  I wish you the best no matter what you decide.

 

 

It is natural to encourage people to go for the best case scenario....BUT also important to take into consideration how ok someone is with his current situation and how much potential surgery he's willing to go through. It's not so simple to remove a jpouch. Not to complicate things, but important to consider...

I'm so grateful that I got my best case scenario with my ostomy and that I don't view it as intestines hanging outside my body that I have to protect constantly. I suspect that description is directly related to your negative experience with yours and that would make sense. Our experiences directly affect our perspectives.

Well said Daleer, my sentiments exactly and after all, this is a J pouch forum.

strange posted:
Lambiepie posted:
Daleer posted:

Why would you even consider NOT trying a j-pouch because it MIGHT have complications.  I check this board maybe once a year and post a few times and then forget about it because I forget that I have a j-pouch.  That's how it is for most people.  The people who hang out on this board (for the most part) are the people who have had ongoing problems.  Because when you are living a normal life you don't spend your time on medical boards...that's just normal human nature.  When I had my colon out and was debating getting a j-pouch I was sick as a dog and spent a lot of time on here.  The people gave me hope and support but on the negative side reading all the problems people were having also almost scared me out of getting a j-pouch.  The temporary ileo/bag I had was a nightmare for me and the j-pouch has been a Godsend.  You better believe if my j-pouch ever fails I'll be back on here all the time for support...but till then like most people without problems...I'll either won't be on here or check in infrequently.  There are some people without problems who are on here all the time only to help others..but those are the rare truly selfless people who most of us aren't.  My surgeon told me that he never hears from the majority of his j-pouch patients again because they don't have problems.  He hears a lot from the minority that do have problems.  The best case scenario for a j-pouch is TOTAL NORMALCY - I have ZERO restrictions on my diet, ZERO restrictions on my activities.  The best case scenario for a bag is living with your intestines hanging outside your body, having to protect it constantly and change bags.  Why not go for the route with the best POSSIBLE outcome?  Yes you might have complications or have it fail but why let fear prevent you from going for the chance at a completely normal life?  This is all just one man's opinion based on my personal experiences.  I wish you the best no matter what you decide.

 

 

It is natural to encourage people to go for the best case scenario....BUT also important to take into consideration how ok someone is with his current situation and how much potential surgery he's willing to go through. It's not so simple to remove a jpouch. Not to complicate things, but important to consider...

I'm so grateful that I got my best case scenario with my ostomy and that I don't view it as intestines hanging outside my body that I have to protect constantly. I suspect that description is directly related to your negative experience with yours and that would make sense. Our experiences directly affect our perspectives.

Well said Daleer, my sentiments exactly and after all, this is a J pouch forum.

 

Strange, it may not be your intention, but your words and their underlying attitude are alienating. I come on here to give my support to those who are considering removing their pouches and asking for help. Yes, that's the OSTOMY contribution to this "jpouch" forum. I give my point because it just might present new information to someone in the throes of making this difficult decision. This is not an "us and them" thing; we can help each other.

Lambiepie posted:

Strange, it may not be your intention, but your words and their underlying attitude are alienating. I come on here to give my support to those who are considering removing their pouches and asking for help. Yes, that's the OSTOMY contribution to this "jpouch" forum. I give my point because it just might present new information to someone in the throes of making this difficult decision. This is not an "us and them" thing; we can help each other.

I don't think I'm allienting anyone, any underlying attitude is being creating within your own mind, as only the reader can decide the tone of which to use when reading.

Taking the moral high ground and implying I don't realise what I'm writing, well, that's alienating.

I'm entitled to my opinion as much as anyone else and the points raised within Daleer post I happen to agree with, is that so wrong.

This is, after all, a J pouch forum and I found this forum because I was considering J pouch surgery and the information gleaned was most helpful.

Just as Daleer explained, this is more of forum for those suffering from complications, when in fact, J pouch surgery is actually very successful, yet the forum members who have suffered such complications peddle worry and fear based on their own experiences and appear to dwell on the possible complications.

It's like being 19 and getting a tattoo, there's always someone who'll say, "when your old and wrinkly, you'll regret that ! "  but when you're 19, who cares what the tattoo will looks like when your old.

Such an adage can also apply to J pouch Surgery, regardless of the difficult and complex procedure required to remove a failed pouch; why focus on the negatives, if we all focused on the negatives, J pouch surgery and this forum probably wouldn't exist.

p.s

I don't have any tattoos, nor am I 19.

Last edited by Former Member

Just my 2 cents- I am on my 3rd (& final, possible) total j-pouch reconstruction (due to only having 18" left of small bowell). I have had 3 life flights to Mayo Clinic, MN along with many emergency ground trips there (a 12-Hr drive.) I have had 15 major abdominal surgeries since my 1st, which was a total colectomy with J-pouch creation & loop ileostomy. &....I WOULD ABSOLUTELY DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN, IN A HEARTBEAT- just to have the good times my pouch has allowed me to have, in between the tuff stuff & emergencies!!! 1000%! Everyone's different, but, for ME- having an ostomy bag 3xs, for abt 1 yr each time, was PURE HELL & I absolutely hated it! Most days I stood in the shower with no bag on & just cried for hours! It changed me, mentally, & the ONLY way I got thru it was KNOWING IT WASNT PERMANENT!! So, for some of us, the possible risks & problems with a j-pouch do outweigh having a permanent ostomy. For me, even having WAY more issues than a typical J-poucher, I wouldn't change the decision to keep fighting for it. That being said, I also know many people who had j-pouch problems, & they opted for a permanent ostomy & they are SO happy with their choice & totally loving life! & That's AWESOME! & I am totally STOKED for them! My point is: Only YOU can decide what's best for you. & this forum IS mainly for people having issues with their j-pouch. So, please don't discount ALL the MANY happy, healthy j-pouchers that just don't need this group because they are too busy living life & having fun! There are TONS of em out there!  

Alx, well said. Having complications and urging awareness of them is not focusing on them. You can't sugar coat things, otherwise people feel lied to. Bad things can and do happen sometimes.

For the most part, satisfaction for the j-pouch is quite high. Sure, most people have a rough couple of weeks or months, then are off to the races and never look back. But, having complications does not mean we are discouraging against the j-pouch. Like you, I'd do it all over again, warts and all!

Jan

Jfill21 posted:

Made my decision. Met with Dr. Hull at CC on Thursday. After reviewing my records and an exam, she said I am a good candidate for a j-pouch, even at 62. She did emphasize that people over 55 tend to have more bm's than a younger person. I'm scheduled for Step 2 surgery in August. Onward!

Congratulations on your conclusion; we've all been there and we know how difficult such a decision can be...... all the best.

Last edited by Former Member

Add Reply

Post
Copyright © 2019 The J-Pouch Group. All rights reserved.
×
×
×
×
Link copied to your clipboard.
×