Having fistula surgery on Nov 3rd. Fistula basically runs through my perineum and Dr. said he will not know if I will require a seton until he performs the procedure. This is a first for me after having my j-pouch for 12 years so I don't really know what to expect other than what the Dr. told me which if I'm being honest did not sound like much fun. Any advice is welcome. My main concern is how will I be able to go #2 with an open wound right next to my anus. Also curious how long it will take me to be able to sit in an upright position. There are plenty of horror stories out there which unfortunately I have already read so any positive stories are more than welcome. Not looking forward to this in the slightest. Thanks!