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Hello J-Pouch Community,

I am thankful that you guys are out there! Even my surgeon doesn't seem to have many answers (he has never had one afterall).

Yesterday was my first day home from the hospital from my ileostomy take down. I was very positive, both feeling good from the drugs and happy I only needed one night in the hospital.

I woke up from my very first nap and already soiled the bed. I was pretty crushed and started reading some of the boards in this community. I feel a little overwhelmed... why did I think that things would be easier? Tell me it gets better. (I've already started implementing the information I've been reading on here and had a more successful night).

Next week I am already facing my first trip with my new set up. Cancun! (i have no reservations about Mexico but I know people take a lot of precaution to prevent illness). Any tips for a newby to jpouch travel? Also in a couple of weeks I'll be in Europe (where a bathroom is not always close by). I plan on taking plenty of depends. Anything else?

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Hello, Aphe1890. 

Congratulations on takedown and only needing one night in hospital! I used to have accidents during sleep, but it got better after two months or so, and it was not every night, only when I slept deeply or had a big dinner. By my second month or so, no more accidents. Always slept on a baby mattress pad or several white towels (easy to bleach). I suppose for hotel rooms you could pack small, disposable mattress liners like the liners hospitals use. Any drugstore will have them.

In my early days after takedown whenever I left the house I always packed plenty of moistened paper towels in a zip lock Baggie. For me, paper towels (with their textured surface) worked better than baby wipes, which I found too smooth, small, and expensive. Toilet paper in public stalls don't do a complete job and you could end up with bad bum burn, a whole new agony, especially travelling. I also packed my plastic travel bidet to clean with. If I forgot the bottle or paper towels, I would be suffering by the time I got home from rough toilet paper alone. One tip about the plastic bidet bottle, especially if you get one with an air lock button on the bottom, you can't fill it with water and pop it into your backpack or purse because the air lock button will leak a bit of water. Fill it when you get into the restroom, or carry a small bottle of water to carefully fill after you sit down. You'll become expert at juggling supplies in tiny stalls where there is rarely a flat surface! Good luck and happy travelling!!

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