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@tentacle245 did you ever get into the military? I'm 31 years old and have had my j-pouch since 19(2005). I'm just like you, healthy and in the best shape of my life. No daily medication, no diet restrictions and believe it or not, I only have 1-2 bowel movements a day. I made it through MEPS back in May and the doctor whom signed off told me to get a waiver. My recruiter(Alabama Army National Guard) submitted my waiver and 3 months later I receive word that my waiver approval was Denied. No consultation, nothing, just "No".
I then tried to submit a waiver again with the Air Force Reserve Command. The recruiter sent it straight to the surgeon general and within a week I received the same answer; No. I believe in a higher power, the Lord Jesus, and I understand that things may not always work out the way that I want them to, even if it is discouraging and disheartening to be denied when you are 12 years healthy.
I really feel badly for all of you men and women who wish to have military service but are being thrown all of these roadblocks. I am the only male in my family who didn't serve in the US Armed Forces, this due to my IBD, which was much more serious and difficult to treat when I was a younger man. My father was in the US army and my grandfather was in the US navy. My Grandpa was stationed on the USS Oklahoma which was targeted and sunk by the Japanese at Pearl Harbor. He had finished his service before World War II. He had Alzheimer's disease before he passed away but on his lucid days he could describe how the guns fired on that ship like he did it yesterday (that's what his duties were). I developed a theory that Alzheimer's patients most lucid memories are the long term memories of the happiest days of their life. I believe my grandfather'a happiest times in his life were his days in the US navy.
I think it's very admirable that all of you persist towards your wish to serve in the military and are willing to jump through and over whatever hoops and obstacles are thrown your way. Don't give up. My grandfather would be proud of your efforts and so am I.
@CTBarrister, thank you for your kind response. I believe when you have the calling and desire in your heart, then you exhaust all avenues to reach your goal. I, along with countless others who feel we are more fit(because we have to be) than others without a history of health issues, hope that that desire never subsides. I know that there has to be at least one other soul in the greatest military in the world that represents the greatest men and women of the greatest country to ever exist that has a j pouch with normal function. I still have some options/branches left to try before all of the doors are closed, and I will pursue them. The Bible's teaches in Psalsms 37:4 to, "delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desire of your heart." I know that is true and will lean on that truth.
I guess I was lucky. I was able to do my 20 years, 4 active and 16 reserve, before I was diagnosed with UC at 60. I did have issues for quite a while before that but I guess it was mild enough that it didn't interfere enough with my job. Of course I also was not in the infantry, so that probably made life easier, and I pretty much always had access to a bathroom. When I was finally diagnosed it was moderate to severe pancolitis. I guess if things had been bad enough at the time, I would probably have been medically discharged. I also had a career as a special education teacher and am able to continue now as a birth to three provider, so in spite of everything, it hasn't slowed me down too much. I hope that if you persist, things work out for you!
With an all volunteer military, they can be as picky as they want to be. I believe that most of the issue is not wanting to sign on to potential troubles down the road, because any illness you develop after you are in, the military owns.
On the other hand, there are numerous careers in the civilian sector that contract with the DOD without the onerous health restrictions. I had a long career with the VA long after my UC diagnosis.
Jan