Not to add to what everyone else has but...
We are the same age, I have had my k pouch since 1979 (nearly 40 yrs) and have so many abdominal surgeries (including a colostomy at age 2) that I have stopped counting...that said, I have abs of steel.
From day one, I have worked my abs as best I can, knowing that they are the support system for both my k pouch and my spine...I stretch with a home neck stretch thing given to me by my chiro, do isometric, isotonic and yoga exercises, walk miles etc
Last year I had a slip & fall that I thought that I would never come back from...pain so bad that I couldn't stand, sit, walk, climb or go from one position to the next without whimpering.
I am an Eveready bunny at the worst of times, hyperactive, always running around doing 4 jobs at once, but this injury glued me to the sofa in tears.
Doctors said to give up or give in, since I was already 56 they gave me little encouragement...
But I have been fighting the pain, working with both chiros and ethiopaths (sort of the same but not), physiotherapy, Tens machines, heat/cold, and massage.
It has been 14months since the accident...I am back to work full time (ouch!!!), working on my feet, climbing stairs and hills to get to the subway to get to work (1 mile strait up!) and doing my best to show the doctors that I can do it.
There are days when I limp home in tears, spend my nights turning like a lamb on a spit to find a comfortable position, live off of Nsaids still...but mostly I am better.
It takes a lot of time and concentrated effort to fight the good fight...but you do it because the choice is to become that which you cannot stand...bedbound, housebound or crippled...I am fighting because I still have a lot of life to live...and I am moving (finally!!!) to a home that is both k-pouch friendly and my poor almost 57yr old body-friendly..close to everything and no stairs...
Keep fighting the good fight.
Sharon