I just have to say how tough this last month has been for me with the recovery from my takedown. I often hear stories about people going back to work 2 weeks after this last surgery and all I can say is wow, my hats off to you guys.. unfortunately for me I lost my job after my first surgery due to the expected time 4-6 weeks didn't match the actual recovery time which was more like 8-10 weeks... Even so, now that I had the takedown done, I can't fathom going to work not even now 4 weeks out.. I still have a lot of urgency (mainly due to gas I've noticed) and it gets worse as I switch positions or walk... One thing I'm having the worst time figuring out is, for those of you that do work or leave the house for an extended period of time.. how do you address the eating schedule? Take me for example, if I do leave the house (which I rarely do due to fear of an accident) I tend to not eat anything until I return home and plan on staying there for the rest of the evening... However, in doing this I increase my gas when I do decide to eat and then my incontinence kicks in and I'm passing stool and gas at the same time... But I'm afraid if I don't skip meals and try to go out... Ill be looking for every bathroom in the area much like my UC days... I guess that's why I dont go anywhere except Drs appts... I just want my life back, I used to be in the gym 6-7 days a week.. working 10+ hours a day... Social and now everything has been ripped away from me.. I know if the j pouch doesbt work out, I can always go back to the ileostomy but believe it or not I had an even harder time accepting that and I dont think I ever could.. too bad life doesbt have a rewind button.. if it did I might opt to keep my disease colon and take my chances... Ok probably not but I just want my normal life back... That's all I want... Sorry to vent/complain but its just how I'm feeling lately...
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