He kept on trying to push me to have a full colectomy saying I had put on weight and I looked healthy so he thought and thinks that’s the best way to go, he wasn’t bothered that I’m left with a lump above my stoma that’s not a hernia(so he thinks) which fills up of air and poo that I physically have to push on the lump for the air and poo to come out into the bag, for withinin minutes it fills again, I’m literally doing this all night and go the toilet numerous times through the night and day, I’ve had this for a year and he hasn’t wanted to do a thing for me
I’m not sure what a gaslighter is hahaha