Sometimes this site disgusts me when discussing either the pouch or appliance.
And opinions expressed that the pouch is the way to go and the appliance. Bag. Is disgusting and ugly to look at. That is a opinion of individuals. And opinions like that do not belong here.
There are people here that have had both.
And had to get rid of the pouch and go with an appliance. They are not. I repeat. Not ugly and disgusting.
They save lives.
Get right down to it. Most here could handle an appliance. And most that speak of it have temporary ileos which are very hard to deal with. An end and final ileo like I have is so simple. If I can do it anyone can. I'm saying that because I can't do squat most of the time. I'm all thumbs.
All I can add is a pouch or keeping mine would have killed me. It just did not work. And I exhausted all means of keeping it. Now some here just by all means keep it. Dealing with burning issues to taking an assortment of over the counter and prescription drugs to keep it.
I don't take anything. I can eat anything. I have a normal life. It's not ugly to me. It works and works well.
Personally I'd never have another pouch and all that goes with it.
Sure. I'd say try a pouch so you don't have regrets later. Which is what I did. My regret is I didn't go straight to the appliance. Wasted two plus years in misery and pain. Physically and mentally.
All I ask is some refrain from saying how disgusting a bag is and no way would they do it.
It becomes part of the problem with perception of an appliance for people who have them or are considering them.
Of all places where people are trying to make an appliance normal. This place should be pro active in not demeaning the thought of having one.
The poster is right. She reads alot of people with pouches are suffering. Looking for remidies to keep it. No matter what. Some will. Some won't.
I couldn't keep mine.
Now that I have had an appliance for over seven years it means it saved me.
And I have it figured out. I can go seven plus days without changing. They make them so discreet no one knows you have one.
I have no butt burn. That kept me from sleeping along with a constant urge to go. I have no skin issues. An end ileo is a different animal compared to a temporary ileo. I've had both
No sleep and working is a recipe for disaster.
Sorry if this post disturbs some. And I apologize if it does.
But I am speaking up. Bags are not disgusting or ugly. They are what they are.
But be pro active.
Perspective.
Means alot to new people who come in here.
Richard.