Hi everyone,
I had my takedown three months ago, and I have some questions. It seems that every time I talk to my surgeon, he seems perplexed as to why I'm not doing better by now.
-still going to the bathroom 8-10x a day. Taking lomotil, Imodium, Metamucil
-when I feel the urge to have a bm, it hurts. I don't know how to describe it other than it feels like I actually am having a bm with pain. It lasts maybe 10-15 seconds, then comes back again a few min later, like contractions. Will this go away? I stay home with my toddler, I can't imagine getting this feeling while doing a presentation or something at work. The faces I make when I have this pain, trying to 'hold it' until the feeling goes away, are probably awful looking.
-I still have control and urgency issues. I can usually hold it for 15-25 min. I have to really focus on not crapping myself when I get that weird bm feeling. Sometimes, though, it just comes right on out with little warning. Surgeon told me to hold it as long as possible to strengthen the muscles. I was lazy about kegels, but am taking them seriously now.
-I can't pass gas without passing stool. Several times every night, I have to get up to clean myself off. Still am wearing diapers at night
How am I doing?
Thanks
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