Hi Bee, I'm so sorry for your trouble. Infertility is difficult for all and can be excruciatingly painful some. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Each insurance policy is different and the guidelines within each state are different, but many PPO insurance plans do cover testing (not necessarily treatment) for infertility. I suggest you take advantage of it after 6 months of consistent "trying" with no pregnancy. Seek out a "Reproductive Endocrinologist" in your area. They're the fertility doctors.
And if you haven't already, start charting your cycle. I could never figure out the temperature tracking thing (I run cold to begin with) so I used the ovulation tests to identify when I was ovulating each cycle. This data will come in handy when you bring stats to your RE. The more information they have to work with, the better they'll be able to figure out what's going on.
The standard infertility workup usually goes from least to most invasive. Similar to this:
(1) For Him: Semen analysis (40% of infertility cases are caused by his side of the deal)
(2) For Her: Bloodwork - baseline levels of FSH (follicle stimulating hormone) and LH (lutenizing hormone) - best taken during the first week of your cycle.
(3) Use internal sonogram to check out the thickness of the endometrium during an LH surge, which happens right before ovulation (another reason why it's important to get familiar with your ovulation cycle). A day or so after ovulation, they'll go back and check to ensure that the follicle released an egg.
(4) Post-coital test to test cervical mucus and see if his little guys can survive in your cervical mucus. I know..
(5) HSG or HYSTEROSALPINOGRAM. In this test, they push dye through your fallopian tubes to ensure there is a clear passage. This test is the most invasive of the lot, so Doctors, acting in the best interest of their patients, will usually offer it last. From what I have read in this forum, however, it is the most commonly FAILED test among J Pouchers. Fallopian tubes are delicate and can be damaged in the surgery(ies). If both Fallopian tubes are damaged or blocked, IVF is often still a viable (if expensive) option.
When you meet your RE, I suggest you tell them your history and you may want to request to do the HSG a earlier in the process. This is your decision to make with your partner and doctor.
Reproductive Endocrinologists are at the cutting edge of an ever advancing field, but there are still many "unexplained infertility" cases out there. These are some of the many instances of infertility that have yet to be explained by medical science, and as a patient, that can be difficult to wrap your head around. I know I felt particularly let down upon learning that my doctors don't have all the answers
It was a difficult journey for me. We began a regimin of IUI after we failed the post coital test. I fell pregnant on my second IUI (we did most of them without hormones) but lost the pregnancy early. We then knew that an IUI could be a viable solution to achieve pregnancy, so we pursued 4 more IUIs without hormones with no success. For the 6th IUI, we escalated to IUI plus Clomid and the HSG injection to time ovulation. TWINS!
Easy pregnancy. Blessed Babies. Happy toddlers after 3 years of IF.
Everybody loves their kids to the fullest extent that their hearts will allow. And I'm fully aware that I am rationalizing my situation, but it helps me when I believe that infertility made me a better mother and made my motherhood sweeter. My patience is never ending, my commitment to my family is iron clad. Plus - I'm a selfish gal, but it's very difficult to be selfish when your most fervent prayers and wishes have been answered.
I feel for you through this tough time and hope for the best!!!