Has he managed to pee yet?
Even though I am a girl, I find it very hard to pee post op...(this last time it took me about 12 hrs of agony) so I used all of the tricks that my parents used on me as a kid...running water, sipping water, pouring water, putting my fingers in a glass of water...making peeing sounds...somehow it all stimulates the brain and reminds it of the job that it has to do.
I always end up with a boy's urinal because bedpans suck.
Can't use them, never could. The nurses are always astounded but that is the only way that it works for me.
I hope that he did not need to be cathed and that it all came out alright...
Sharon