how long did you wait for takedown after j-pouch was made? heres my situation. my doc set me up for 11 weeks out but my wife may have to leave for a great job opportunity prior so i called my doc and she said shed prefer the 11 weeks but 9 would be ok and she wants my wife with me so shed make that exception. if it affects the outcome i would wait the 11 weeks and be alone but if 9 weeks is fine a would certainly rather have her with me. doc said support may even out weigh the extra 2 weeks. i have to give and answer today so she can get me on the o/r docket and im unsure what to do. advice is very welcome...
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