Hello everyone!
I am new to this group as I have been in denial of my situation for years. I keep looking for answers and hoping things will get better, but unfortunately, thanks to both my unending health problems and some major complications from surgery, I now have an ileostomy and I also have a urinary diversion/continent stoma due to urinary incontinence caused by multiple invasive surgeries. I had cancer when I was a child and radiation really did a number on my body. I underwent a dozen surgeries trying to repair some of the damage radiation did to me. What I ended up with was major urinary incontinence. While trying to remedy the urinary incontinence I developed ulcerative colitis. After the medications failed to treat the colitis I was given what I thought would be a temporary ileostomy and an eventual J-Pouch. Once they realized the urinary incontinence could not be fixed with a sling (it took two failed surgeries to find this out), I was told I could either use some of my small bowel to create a catheterizable stoma for urinating or for a J-Pouch. The urinary incontinence was debilitating so I made the choice to fix that first (it took two surgeries to get that right as well). I am told I do not have enough small bowel to create a J-Pouch, but was told a K-Pouch might be an option (by a second opinion doctor, my original colorectal surgeon never mentioned this as an option).
I live in Boston and am hoping for some advice on who I may be able to consult in the area. I saw on one of the forum lists that there is a Dr. Vrees in Rhode Island and a couple doctors in New York who may perform K-Pouch surgeries. I know a lot of you mention Cleveland Clinic, but I have already spent so much time and energy on trying to literally stay alive and function that I'm hoping there is a doctor closer to home before I go on a goose chase. I also don't entirely trust the doctors I have right now as I went to them for help 8 years ago and they have only made things worse. I don't want to sound unappreciative as I was the one who signed the papers, but if you only knew what they have put me through and the years I have wasted...
Also, how long has it taken any of you to receive a K-Pouch, from consultation to actual surgery? I am a 29 year old and have been in and out of hospitals since I was 3. I'm ready to start my life and am not sure I have another couple years of doctor visits and surgeries in me.
Lastly (for now), have any of you heard of anyone who has two stomas, one for urination and the other for, well, pooping? I've been told too often that I'm a unique case. I'm really tired of feeling alone and helpless.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and if you've gotten through this I appreciate you giving me the chance to vent. Any advice, thoughts, ideas, or miracles are welcome!
My background: Rhabdomyosarcoma Stage 4 diagnosis 1993; Cancer in remission 1994; A dozen reconstructive surgeries between 2000-2012; Ulcerative colitis diagnosis fall 2013; Ileostomy May 2014; Urinary diversion May 2015.