having a 'moment'

Take a deep breath...

Yes, you are stressed, yes you are nervous and yes there will be moments when things do not go right but for the most part and the great majority of us have happy, healthy and cooperative pouches.

You may need to do exercises, deep breathing, yoga and other exercises until you get full control back but unless you have a real sphincter problem or other similar longterm problem you should be ok.

Just understand that befores & afters are not the same. 

One bridge at a time...

Sharon

Your body has been through so much! I had a lot of control issues before takedown as well, I remember vividly leaving a trail from my bed through the room, into the laundry area and to the bathroom.... It was as if my butt thought I might not remember how to get back to my bed. Kegel exercises helped me a lot, I've only had a hand full of accidents since takedown (almost 13 years ago). If you still feel like you're having a lot of problems after your takedown then I would head back to your surgeon and see if they have and advice for you. Hang in there!