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I don't know where to turn to for help, so I'm hoping someone here can help me help my grandson.

Henry was two years old last April 5th. From the time he was born, he has had very infrequent, PAINFUL bowel movements.

He is a very intelligent, active kid but not forming words well, yet.

His mom (my daughter) took him to his pediatrician for this bowel problem and the doctor gave her a script - I don't know the name but it's a baby laxative to give him when he is 'backed up'.

He continues to be in extreme pain when he has a bowel movement He screams worse than a woman in labor. I hate this SOOO much. I sneak prune juice in his apple juice, encourage fresh fruits and veggies and clear liquids. Keep him away from cheese (he loves so much. He drinks a lot of juice/water because he wants to.

I told my daughter that she isn't taking this serious enough. No baby should be in pain like that every time for a bowel movement. She even has to force him to lay still so she can dig it out. Horrible. Otherwise she is a good mom. She breast fed him for just over a year. You would think that would give him looser stools..... nope.

I even thought about calling my GI doctor but my daughter probably wouldn't let me take him there. She said she thinks his system just isn't developed, yet.

I have him several times a week, but not enough to monitor his daily intake.

Any suggestions??????

Thank you
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Pegg,
I am so sorry...this is very, very wrong.
You said one sentence that had ice running through my veins...she had to dig it out.
That remined me of me little.
I had no rectum. Zero. There was nothing in there to help the push things out and my grandmother had to do just that...dig things out. It is not something people either think about or look for...but it is possible that the rectum did not decende down completely and he therefore cannot push it out.
What form does his stool take when he does manage to push things out? Normal or is it somehow 'mishapen'??
The only reason that they ever figure it out with me was that my grandmother was a medical professional and understood what normal was and wasn't.
Sharon
Sue,

That sounds like excellent advice. I'm going to look for a pediatric GI doc (maybe check with my GI doc's group to see there is one there or one they recommend). And then have to convince my daughter to let me or her or us take him there for an appointment.

Sharon, his stools (when it finally comes out) is big, dark and hard. Sometimes there is undigested particles of food in it..... that's probably not unusual due to the fact he doesn't chew his food up well when he is very hungry. Very often though, he isn't hungry and will hardly eat for an entire day.

I'll keep you updated. Yes, Sue, I was concerned too, that he may have inherited my sick, digestive system.

Pegg

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