I am in need of info/advice. I am 78 yrs old in excellent condition possibly going from J pouch back to an ilestomy. I had severe UC back in 1979, hospitalized after going from 185 lbs down to 129. After spending a week in hospital, had emergency surgery waking up wearing a bag. Being a health/physical education/coach at local comm. college, I was very depressed, thought no way would I be able to stand in front of a class in shorts and would have to wear coveralls the rest of my life. After letting me feel sorry for myself for a several days my amazing doctor, a personal friend told me I could feel sorry for myself the rest of my life or look at this as a real challenge and get back to doing everything I had always done. With his encouaragement and much support from my family and friends, I got to work, after bottoming out at 111 lbs. It took a lot of hard work, but got back to 170 and returned to competive running, tennis and working out everyday. I got invovled with our local ostomy group, picked up many great tips on managing an ostomy, and became a visitor for newbees. When I had my original surgery, they left about 13" of my colon intact with the idea of reattaching if it cleared up. After 10 years, I would occasionally have the urge to go and I would pass mucus and some blood. My doctor told me I needed to have the remaining portion of colon removed because of the increasing chance of cancer.
I had a consultation with a colorectal surgeon and in1989 performed a j pouch surgery with great results. In spite of going 12-15 x/day I did great and was happy to not have an external bag. I had very occasional leakage, mostly at night, and was not a big deal. I think,because of the aging process and losing some control of my sphincter muscle, over the last years, the leakage has greatly increased to having to wear a pad fulltime. In spite of not wanting to have another surgery, I'm feeling it's necessary to return to an ileostomy to fix the leakage and having a raw butt all the time. After my initial depression, I've always felt I was very lucky to have both surgeries and being alive to have many wonderful years.
After realizing that to relieve my current situation, the logical answer is going back to having an ileostomy. I am having a consultation with a colorectal surgeon at Stanford this coming Friday and would love to hear from anyone who has experienced this. I want to be prepared with questions to help prepare with information that would be helpful. I did well for the 10 years I wore a bag, but that was a long time ago. I'm hoping not to have my rectum sealed, is that possible? Is the scar tissue from previous surgeries going to be an issue? Any other questions that I should ask?
Thank you for taking the time to read! I'm usually a very positive person, but am experiencing some anxiety with another surgery but am hoping for a very positive result and any info/advice would greatly appreciated!