Hi everyone, i havent posted in a while ive been preparing for my j pouch surgery! well i was until my surgeon said i should loose alot of my baby weight before going ahead with the surgery so its been pushed back for a few months.
I had some questions that i am just totally confused about. Basically i have had two children one before my ileostomy and one after, they are 28 and 3 months old and both boys, i love them to bits but me and my husband would love another little one but just not at the moment. so anyway whats making me think overtime is if i have my j pouch surgery done and then i am hoping to have hernia repair and a tummy tuck because my tummy is just an awful mess (i tried to attach a photo but cant seem to make it work) will i be able to or should i get pregnant after all of this? its just i dont want a baby right now and would love one a few years down the line and i also dont want to wait with my ileostomy for those years and want my body back just a little bit any suggestions or experiences that anyone could share with me would be so helpful, thanks guys xxxxxxxxxx
I had some questions that i am just totally confused about. Basically i have had two children one before my ileostomy and one after, they are 28 and 3 months old and both boys, i love them to bits but me and my husband would love another little one but just not at the moment. so anyway whats making me think overtime is if i have my j pouch surgery done and then i am hoping to have hernia repair and a tummy tuck because my tummy is just an awful mess (i tried to attach a photo but cant seem to make it work) will i be able to or should i get pregnant after all of this? its just i dont want a baby right now and would love one a few years down the line and i also dont want to wait with my ileostomy for those years and want my body back just a little bit any suggestions or experiences that anyone could share with me would be so helpful, thanks guys xxxxxxxxxx