hi everyone, my friend also has a j-pouch and is having problems getting disability approved at her company. But it is because her doctor says he does not want to mess with all the paperwork and legal headaches, and therefore will not support her disability anymore (she is 4 months out).
The doc said that her symptoms which are: severe anal pain/burn/spasms, bloating/nausea, frequent bathroom trips, fatigue/weakness are not enough anyway to be considered "Disabled" and that patients with these symptoms still work or find a lower stress job.
Her job requires extensive travel and long hours. Her doctor suggests a "modified" work environment with less hours. Also, the doc said she is young (36), should gain some normalcy in her life by going back to work, and shouldn't go on long term disability for her own benefit and future job options. In my opinion, the doctor is now covering his own a$$ because he already released her from leave and now doesn't want to deal with the insurance co.
1- What do you guys think of this?
2- Is the doctor being selfish and unreasonable? Or is it normal to go back to work, even with such symptoms?
3- What can she do now? Especially if the doctor isn't providing medical evidence....is it possible to still get leave benefits? Maybe by going to another doc? Or is this one of those battles not worth fighting for?
thanks all!
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