I have seen blood like you are talking about even after wiping but it doesn't happen very often. I don't usually see it two days in a row. If I did, I would call my surgeon just to make sure there's not something I should be aware of. 

That's good you're able to dilate everyday. I was for a while but then it started getting really uncomfortable and so I'm trying to just do it once a week. I would love to be able to get back to dilation everyday since I felt a lot better when I was able to do that.

Do you mind me asking what you use to dilate? I use a candle.

Yep candle for me too.