Hi Candicet, I think the best thing you can do is get your flares under control. From what I've heard if you go into the pregnancy in remission you have a better chance of staying in remission. There are still medications you can take while pregnant, I was on prednisone for the first 6 weeks of my pregnancy. It was for reasons unrelated to my colitis and part of my FET protocol. I read up about it and the internet was saying that there is a chance of low birth weight, however my little one has been growing well ahead of schedule this entire time. I haven't had any issues with my pouch so far, I'm just past 11 weeks and my pouch was healthy going into this. 

Good Luck!! 

Thank you so much! I know this might sound silly but I am so scare that either the baby(future) or I would get into a fatal situation. But I have been told by doctors that all will be well and safe. I just wanted to hear it from someone with an actual J pouch��

I'm pretty worried about how my health will hold up in general and then therefor the baby's health. Not that I have much reason to worry because I'm pretty healthy (for someone with a jpouch/ulcerative colitis). But like you I was told that everything would be fine. All my doctors were very supportive of pregnancy. I hope it all works out for you!!! 

thank you! How do you have a jpouch and ulcerative colitis if I may ask?

I still have a small portion of my rectum that my jpouch is connected to. At the same time my doctors often say I have crohns like symptoms. Whatever it is, a jpouch isn't a cure, so I still say I have ulcerative colitis.

I'm sorry to hear! I hope it all gets better!