My surgeon said it's not recommended so that means it's still possible and with healing time I should be able to have stimulation from my rectum. Right now, it's bleeds a lot and doesn't stop so I get extremely frustrated and angry and don't get much pleasure. My mental health is at 0 because I'm not allowed a sexuality because of this life ruining disease so if the bleeding doesn't stop or if I can't get anal pleasure with a j pouch my life is basically over. I'm too lazy to go find anyone to do anything with and just want the easiest way to find pleasure back.