I am a flight attendant with a J-Pouch. My J-pouch was well established (9 years old) when I started flying last year. Previously I was an ER nurse. I have always managed to have great control and never once experienced incontinence because I couldn't get to a toilet. It took some time to figure out what worked best as far as in-flight dining. A little experimentation went a long way to figure out what my pouch appreciated during those long days. The only real issue I had was that each time I used the lav I had to take a large water bottle with me as my output tended to stick to the sides of the bowl (sorry if this is TMI) and it needed a good rinse prior to the next pax. Good luck with your decision.
PS. If you do decide to go for a pouch PLEASE be patient. The adjustment process can be disheartening sometimes when you want to get back to "normal" and you don't have your ostomy any more. I really really missed mine in the beginning but now I am extremely happy with my pouch.
Thanks for the reply . Similar story with me with this ileostomy when I have to empty it - as there’s no water in the toilet it can be a bit difficult to clean but I do the same thing.
im definitely going to go for the pouch and I understand I will have to be patient but I am prepared for that.
do you have any issues with time spent in the toilet or are you generally quite quick?