All normal in the early days. Things will improve with time. I found once I had my appetite back and was eating more of a normal diet my stools firmed up and weren't as loose. 

I remember all too clearly having to stop everything and try to clamp like a steel trap. I don't remember how long that lasted but I know I really noticed a big difference at 4 months and then another qualitative leap at 6 months. At the beginning I would often wonder if I had done the right thing. I'm (generally) glad that I had the surgery. I'm at nine months now. 5-6 per day, one in the night. No clamping. No leaking. No real urgency. At times burning but nothing like it was in the first few months. Things have 'toughened up' down there considerably. Hang in there. 

One more thought....thickening with fibre was vital in my opinion (and obviously many others). I use psyllium husks four times a day but most use Metamucil (I don't like its' sweetness). I would definitely add it to your day if you haven't already. And Imodium as well.