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I had an extensive set of x-rays including abdomen and pelvic area last week and am scratching my head over the process.  The tech (young female, I am male) asked me if I was wearing underwear and upon my saying yes, asked me to take everything off except for my briefs.  No gown.  So I did it, not being very modest.  When I looked down, I realized that due to the fabric color and snug fit, there was nothing left to the imagination ... and I have large hands.  That was a first for me.   She had to touch my hips several times for positioning, and her face was practically in my crotch, although she was very professional about it.  Fortunately, she is gay (I'm not), having referred to her wife, so that pretty well ruled out any "perviness".  But still, I wonder if that is customary in some regions in the US or elsewhere.   

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I think a gown is typically used in those situations for patient comfort, and hygiene reasons as well.  I would have been uncomfortable as well.  This reminds me of a situation I had a few years ago in which I felt a bump in my anus and collected various medical opinions on it, from my GI, a female dermatologist, and then a colorectal surgeon, all of whom told me it was a skin tag and not to do anything about it.  I saw the dermatologist after my GI told me to see one.  She ultimately sent me to a colorectal surgeon for another opinion.  But she creeped me out.  I was a new patient in her office and had never seen or met this woman before. I got her name from a coworker, because my regular dermatologist had just retired.  She brought a female assistant into the room, and did not ask permission or really explain why, mumbling something about her office policy.  I felt like it was because she needed to monitor me, or male patients generally.  I never saw her again.  There was something about it and her explanation that was super artificial and super uncomfortable to me.  I actually never felt that way with a female medical provider, ever, either before or since.

Unlike your radiology tech, who I think just did not care about the embarrassment factor for you or her, the female dermatologist I saw seemed to be all about having a witness in the room to anything that happened.  Maybe she had other male patients who were pervs or made accusations against her, but it felt to me like she needed a monitor in the room. The result was that she lost me as a patient.  It was my first and last visit with her.  It was the only time I ever felt uncomfortable around any doctor, and it was extremely bizarre.  It was like she was telling me right off the bat I don't trust you, and I wanted nothing to do with her after that.

CTBarrister
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X-rays without a simple gown and only briefs is unacceptable.  Had she needed to position you more correctly she could have asked you to raise the gown above your hips.  Having a chaperone is quite common.  As a nurse in a pediatric ER I was often asked to accompany a male physician into the cubicle when he was examining a female patient on her own.

J

Jaypea,

I understand you are in the healthcare profession but I am 57 years old, have been a "professional patient" most of my life, and never had to have a "chaperone" in the room until the episode I described above. It's very simple: if a doctor is telling me he or she doesn't trust me as a patient, or else can't trust himself or herself, I do not want to be their patient. I do have the choice of going elsewhere, and I exercised that choice.

CTBarrister
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I think each situation might be different. I have taken many X-rays while my underwear was on and some with a hospital gown, some even with bra on I believe. II have never been naked though, that would be creepy lol. I believe I have had doctors position me as well when it came to radiology work. I know things can be highly uncomfortable but I would just get everything done to make sure everything is okay. Of course if there is something skecthy going on, definitely speak up and use your voice and talk to a manager/supervisor.

FM
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