Hi,
This is my first post and I will do my best to be clear about what is going on with me. In 2000, I was diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis. After going through flare-ups that sent me to the ER several times, being unable to get off Prednisone without having a flare-up, and being unable to get the UC into remission, I was given the option to have J-Pouch surgery. I didn't hesitate to have the J-Pouch procedure done because I didn't want to suffer anymore. I had the colectomy done in the spring of 2004 and takedown surgery was done three months later. I felt pretty good after the first few months of having a J-Pouch. Unfortunately, I had a pretty serious unknown digestive problem that sent me to the ER again in the spring of 2005. My parents pretty much threw up their hands and said, "We don't know what else to do and don't want you to keep going through this." I did recover from the ailment but was left to wonder what else could be done. I got married later that summer and moved in with my wife. My J-Pouch was doing okay for the next few years although I did deal with some minor blockages here and there. Then in May of 2010, I had to be hospitalized due to severe pouchitis. It was a nightmare! Since then I have been dealing with off and on pouchitis problems and taking antibiotics each time I feel they are needed. The blockages have gone away, thankfully. In April of 2018, I developed a fistula. I started seeing a new GI doctor at Kaiser and she scheduled me for a pouchoscopy. After seeing that there was a narrowing of my upper-pouch/lower intestine area along with my fistula, she diagnosed me with Crohn's Disease and put me on Humira. Then this past year, I had yet another scope done by a different GI doctor and he determined that I had a stricture in my upper-pouch area. So long story short, I had a few examinations/tests done and my GI doc and colorectal surgeon (not the one who did the J-Pouch) decided that I should have my J-Pouch removed and have permanent ileostomy surgery. This was due to my chronic pouchitis, stricture, fistula, and that the colorectal surgeon said to me that J-pouches only last about 20 years. I recently turned 41 years old and am really hesitant to have my J-pouch removed and live with a bag on my stomach for the rest of my life. I hate to think of myself as being unattractive to my girlfriend or anyone else. I lived with an ostomy bag for three months between surgeries and realized it's pros and cons. My GI doc said I cannot have any procedures done, such as balloon dilation, to help with the stricture without serious risks. I am stuck not knowing what to do now. I go to the restroom over 10 times per day. I struggle to go to sleep because I keep having to get up to use the restroom mostly due to gas and whatever is in my pouch keeping me from relaxing. Normally I would ask my GI doc for antibiotics but I just think she will keep telling me there is nothing more she can do for me and that surgery is my only option. I would like to hear any feedback or advice from you all. I have done lots of research on my condition but have not reached out to others who know what I am going through. Thank you for your time.