Hi group thanks for the add , my name is mike and i have a stoma and a bag since august 2012 because of the surgery i developed parastomal hernias big as a tennis ball basicly one huge hernia like a pregnant woman ready to give birth im in a 6x shirt and the hernias are getting big im 240 doc says if i can lose 50 pounds and get reconected i think a j pouch i will be ok maybe its a very serious operation im scared but it needs to be done what do you all think yes or no ? i know were not docs but just looking for some friendly advice im scared big time , thanks , Big Mike .. no pun intended lol