Aaro123 and Maverick Plus: I appreciate what your doctor said about chronic pain and adhesions, Aaro123. We don't realize when we have the surgery, that although we alleviate one set of problems, we end up exchanging it for another set of problems that dog us for the rest of our lives. I look back and think about how trusting I was of the doctor's advice all the time and for all the surgeries I had. I might have done one or two differently. Some others literally saved my life. But what's done is done. No going back for sure.
These challenges I have on a daily basis have altered my natural life on earth until I breathe my last breath in ways I never appreciated before, bleeding into so many areas from relationships, working (not) to using public restrooms. Seems I'm always apologizing for myself for being the pain the ass, high maintenance, always on the hunt for a bathroom person I am. I thought that would stop after the surgeries. Boy, was I mistaken! Amongst my family and close friends, I am the "butt" of jokes--in a fun way. They are never mean or insulting and we all have fun making fun of it--you gotta laugh or you'll cry.
I know so many of us here go through this on a daily basis and we each find a way to deal with it in our own way. I guess it makes us real. And I suppose we can't get too uppity about ourselves with our digestive and butt problems. Ha ha! Maybe the real challenge lies in finding a way to become really okay with how we are now, not that I mean we don't continue to strive to find answers to our chronic pain, illness, inflammation, adhesion, etc., issues, but just accepting of ourselves in the middle of it all--at least speaking for myself.
Then I wonder how much personal stress levels (and the physical problems are enough to cause lots of stress in and of themselves) play into creating more of everything. It helps me to find ways to relax and de-stress by meditating or talking to a good friend, listening to music, writing, being in nature or just taking extra good care of myself. Anyways, these are just my thoughts. Maybe it helps to build character in us or just make a character out of us, and we can be here and be real with one another because we've been there, too.