I haven't used Metamucil to deal with nightly incontinence yet but I have tried Loperamide and found out that it reduces nightly incontinence for me. Sometimes I have none, sometimes only a reduced amount but most of the time it helps to a certain extent.
Metamucil is helping me when everything feels quite 'restless' in my belly and so on. Then I take one and it's getting calmer.
But you can try it. If it helps you'll notice it and if not you haven't done any damage to your body either.