I have a couple questions but a little background before: I have undergone surgery to completely remove my colon and am currently with a colostomy bag. I feel awesome, a million times better and really do not mind the bag much. However, I am still considering doing the j-pouch surgery. Before I decide to fully commit to that, there are a couple questions:
A) I figure I am trading security (e.g. no pants pooping) for a little more normality and mobility - I would be able to move/run/swim around more comfortably, less of a hernia risk, I wont have a giant weak spot on my tummy, no more bellyshaving or caring about supplies all the time, and no more taking 20 minutes to chew my steak. What I worry is that I will have to deal with incontience again - e.g. if I get stuck in traffic I might have an accident. Basically, is it worth going through this operation, which is really about vanity/quality of life instead of health benefits (especially since I dont hate my ileostomy)
B) My surgeon is recommending I undergo a modified two stage j pouch surgery, where he would make the pouch and attach it in one surgery, meaning I would not wake up with a bag after one surgery (I already had the surgery to take out my colon and put in an end ileostomy). Apparently this is a new technique that has come aboutbecause evidence suggests you do not need the healing period between the second and third surgery as would be typical in my case. I was wondering if any of you had any opinion on this type of surgery.
C) Finally, I am trying to determine when would be the best time for surgery. I have been off predinsone since the middle of May (my surgery was April 19th and I recovered very quickly). I had originally planned to do surgery in October, but am not sure whether it is necessary or even detrimental to wait that long. Any thoughts?
Again thank you for your help
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