My son is 2 days past stage 1. They left some rectum and he just had some significant discharge (poo, blood , mucus). He said he strained a bit and still does not feel relieved (the same horrible feeling pre- surgery). He is very scared and crying, "I don't feel relieved", "I went through this for nothing". Any comforting words I can give him? Is this normal? Will this feeling pass once all the post surgical stuff come out?