Hi everybody I've posted on another discussion but i wanted to ask about a vaginal fistula in the woman's group...I've reposted below what I wrote in the other discussion just for background...
ive been having major problems and they are getting worse as the days progress. I had my takedown only 6 weeks ago but the issues aren't getting better and infact getting a little worse.
1. I've got so much constant pressure on the anus, and then more severe pain comes in waves which I have to come to a standstill for until it passes, but more recently it isn't passing and i have to go to the loo, the pain is intense, and I have to clench for dear life, as of yesterday when i went to the loo I leaked stool, (and this is worrying me, because I seem less and less able to hold anything in)which hasn't happened since the takedown not even in the hospital straight after the operation. The pressure feels like a burning ball stuck in the anus! And when the intense pressure isn't there then it still feels like a ball is stuck in my back passage. When this happens I also feel burning right inside the vagina like right at the top deep inside, and then that burning persists, I can't see any stool leaking form the vagina or discharge, there is some clear discharge but I have that normally. Also I feels like small air bubbles are coming from the vagina not all the time but sometimes when I'm walking about not whilst on the loo.
2.im going to loo about 15 plus times a day,last night I was going pretty much every hour, but the next issue is when I go to the loo nothing much comes out, then i involuntarily strain which causes bleeding. I'm having to use my hand and with tissue almost pull apart the Anus to let anything pass it just won't do it unless I help it doing! I never feel empty at all,the bleeding Is not really in the stool in the bowl from what I've seen, but more so on the tissue mixed in the stool.
3. Gas is causing me issues, I could pass it lying down initially now I can't do that either
if it is a structure, can it be fixed? I don't want to have to use a catheter to empty. When they dialate the structure does it effect the sphincter muscles? Do they become Weeker? As I've been told mine are already not great.
i know normal is not term that fits the bill anymore,but is any of this 'normal' at this stage? I'm really worried and then there's added pressure from the family together better and stay better, as though I'm not trying!
how do you know if u have a fistula? When I insert my finger into the vagina the whole finger goes in but then kind of hits a wall, sorry for this detail Andy don't know if hats normal or not is that what should happen?
sorry for such a long message in just so worried, any help or advice would be so great
thanks so much in advance
Sally xxx