My anal wound healed in 2 weeks. No problems at all.
I believe I did as well as I did for two main reasons:
1. The J-pouch was my problem. My body hated it. THe minute it came out my body bounced right back..
2. I did a very extensive, multi-faceted mind body approach to the final surgery. I had a massage with Reiki treatment every week for 6 weeks leading up to surgery. I used a guided meditation tape every day for 6 weeks before and wore headphones with the meditation in surgery. I did everything I was in control of to do to help the process. Just feeling like I was a part of the process instead of everything being done TO me was huge mentally.
It's a scary decision for sure, but I knew I was ready when I was willing to accept any and all of the possible complications for the possibility of an improved quality of life. Paid off in spades for me :-)