Well, boys & girls, I have come (more or less) to grips with the fact that the pouch advancement is a failure; with the reappearance of the/a new fistula, I know there is no other option for me now than going to a permanent stoma. I am getting an appointment with my surgeon to plan for this; it will realistically have to wait until the Fall at the earliest, and possibly even the new year.
No one else knows as of yet. There is simply too much stress going on around here to dump this into the mix for the time being as well. Yay.
So. The reason we tried the pouch advancement was that the other option was the perm ileo and two different very knowledgeable surgeons told me that would be a major surgery with a long recuperation time as well, so they strongly suggested trying the advancement first. Well, now I have and am back to square one.
For those with experience: how major are we talking about? Will internal organs need to be moved/rearranged? Will I have to have a Barbie Butt? What kind of recuperation period are we talking about?
For those who already have a permanent stoma: We're talking an end ileo here, right? I can do this, right?
Thanks, all. I have no clue what I would do without this board.
Gin