Originally Posted by skn69:
Hi Janet,
Wooohooo!
That is good news (in as much as getting a date to have someone take a stroll through your guts and knit them into a sweater can be good news!)...are you happy about it?
How does the news make you feel?
Happy? Excited? Terrified? unsure? Impatient?
All of the above?
For me it was a relief every time that I managed to get a surgeon to move forward towards a treatment or surgery (I wrote 'cure' but erased it...we are never really cured but maintain a stutus quo with our bodies and new plumbing)...
This could be a great oppertunity for you and your pouch...not sure if your surgeon will try to make a k pouch out of your pre-existing j pouch or if he intends to make a whole, brand new k pouch for you but either way, it could be a new start to a new life.
I am reticient to give some 'solid' advice and say...go for it. What I say is that you know what you have, how you are handling it (not great), what your health situation is presently (not great) and how you feel about the future if you do nothing (crapy)...
This is a Big surgery...don't fool yourself...you will hate me if I say that it is a cake-walk, because it isn't...it is still major abdominal surgery with the ever-present possibility of ileus, post op complications, infections etc...the valve is delicate, dangerously easy to fudge and needs babying...a lot...so no brisk movements, no yanking the darn tube out etc...no getting impatient. This is it.
(I am being the devil's advocate here...Sorry...I don't want to be a downer...but this is rough surgery)
If you chose to do it then get ready...You will not be lifting, pushing, pulling, draging, hanging, reaching up, yanking etc anything from surgery til around Easter. (no joke...the older we get, the harder it is to heal and the more time we need to give ourselves to heal properly)
No munching on huge bowls of salad for a while either...or other high-roughage foods.
Get your home prepared, your friends and family on speed-dial along with your pharmacist and book off of work for 6-8 weeks (no shoveling snow either!).
I am thrilled for you and the possibility of you getting a new start but think it through...
By the way, Nov 13th is my lucky day...(the 13th in general and Nov specifically...PM me if you want to know why)...
Let me know what I can do and how I can help if at all.
Congrats
Sharon
sharon
still exhausted from the brief trip; this is more a product of my chronic anemia than the gi problems. ok, throw in some emotional stress too. i have the surgery date, but still need to consult with my gi doc re the possibility of pouchitis reoccurring. as it stands with this doc, the j pouch is too damaged so it can't be use for the k. if the k fails, then i'm stuck with a very short intestine for the bag option. is it too short i questioned? no, but something to weigh in when making my final decision. it is the only thing that is holding me back at this point. i know others say they take a short course of antibiotics if they get a pouchitis flare, but for the most part i'm allergic or resistant to antibiotics. like most folks on this site, it's complicated. to answer your question as to how i feel, well i'm second guessing my decision, although i know i'll go through with the k pouch. i'm also nervous as a friend recently died from surgery that was suppose to be routine. and i'm not looking forward to traveling to cleveland where i don't know anybody, and am worried as how i'm going to get home. good news is spirit airlines flies direct and RT tix is 85$. at least until one adds in luggage.
the doc said it's a seven day hospital stay and once back home walking is ok, stairs are ok--i've got a 5 story town house so am up and down all day long--but just don't lift anything over 20-25#. in 2-3 months i can have my shoulder replacement (of the failed replacement, as i said we are all complicated and next week i find out more about back surgery). and once all is healed i can ski and sail. the post-op activity sounds different than what you have written on the site. i'll do my best to slow down. had forgotten about not shoveling snow!! damn, i like to do that.
i'm going to be so very careful about the value post-op and make certain it has healed perfectly. i've had too many medical complications and can't afford one more.
thanks for your support and info. it means a lot to me.
and yes, why is friday the 13th lucky for you? peace, janet
btw, i asked about the 70% re-op rate within the first year, which is cited in his article--posted in our korner. that % has gone way down in recent years, although he didn't know the %. that's very good news.