I have a question for those of you who have had c-sections. How long did it really take you to get up and going again? I keep seeing how everyone calls it major abdominal surgery and it takes months to feel like yourself again ect. After my major surgeries, I was up and going within a month but I was younger and wasn't going through major hormonal changes and taking care of a baby too. I am trying to figure out a reasonable maternity leave time. I get 10 weeks paid total but I was hoping to extend it by going back to work part time earlier (maybe around 6 weeks) so we can avoid putting a 10 week old in day care. I am a graduate student working a research lab so my schedule is very flexible but most of my work is done standing up and it requires a decent amount of walking back and forth.