I want everyone on this site to accept a round of applause. I have recently been through some of the dark times we have all endured and reading peoples posts and sorting through advice and suggestions has sometimes been my only ray of hope. It is strengthening to feel solidarity in struggle and just as important to feel the shared joy of small victories. I am usually a reader on the site with only a few posts and replies, so I wanted to take this opportunity to say "thank you ..... you are awesome, wise, and inspiring!" And a special thank you to Jan and my friends who have received and responded so thoughtfully to my private messages. I am so grateful.