Hi all,

ive had this problem for a while now and in all honesty ive just been to embarrassed to ask anyone aboit it...but here goes. Ive had my ileostomy for just over 2 years now and come this may im hoping to start the reversal process and end up with a j pouch fingers, legs, arms and so on and so forth crossed!! so anyway i still pass quite alot of blood and mucus from my back passage (a few times everyday) when i get the urge i just go straight away, but the other day i got the urge and i ignored it because i was so busy with my kids, it went away but when it came back i had no time to even run and i ended up having a big accident :/ thi shas happened to me before and im just really worried, does this mean i wont have control with the j pouch also??

any help and advice would be appreciated, thnks guys

sally