Hi! Brand new to the group. I am so grateful for this type of support but after reading many posts my mind is whirling. I am a out 5 weeks post reversal/takedown from being diverted with a temp iliostemy as a result of Stage III rectal cancer. My rectum was removed and a j pouch was created. Most of the colon is intact. 9 rounds of chemo and 6 weeks of radiation, a bout of colitis and almost 11 months to the day for initial surgery, reversal. Boy was I naive about all the things that could go wrong. I was aware of the potential difficulty with the "system coming back on line", though I didn't truly understand those challenges. Since the reversal I have had a recurrence of the colitis which I developed after radiation,(it was virtually gone by the time of the reversal), have just discovered that I have a rectovaginal fistula and am passing stool about 20-30 times per day. My stools are small but formed though I am mostly incontinent. I had some sphincter menometry done prior to surgery and it showed low to mid level control.
So many questions... Is it possible that I will gain more control and be able to "hold it" more over time? I thought that once the stools were formed that they wouldn't just slip out. I just has blood work done yesterday to determine how much inflammation is left in the colon. If it is still significant, my surgeon is going to start me on prednisone. I will be scoped next week to find out the exact location of the fistula which will determine the surgical procedure.
I was so excited to have some of my life back going into the new year but now, more challenges. Is it much to early to throw in the towel and start discussing a permanent colostomy with my surgeon? As I mentioned, I am "going" sometimes every 20-30 minutes and although very small, mostly not making it to the toilet.
Any encouragement or suggestions would be appreciated. By the way, I am taking Imodium, Lomotil caused me bad belly aches and an up to 2 times per day of Metamucil. Thanks peeps for any advise.
You all take care.
So many questions... Is it possible that I will gain more control and be able to "hold it" more over time? I thought that once the stools were formed that they wouldn't just slip out. I just has blood work done yesterday to determine how much inflammation is left in the colon. If it is still significant, my surgeon is going to start me on prednisone. I will be scoped next week to find out the exact location of the fistula which will determine the surgical procedure.
I was so excited to have some of my life back going into the new year but now, more challenges. Is it much to early to throw in the towel and start discussing a permanent colostomy with my surgeon? As I mentioned, I am "going" sometimes every 20-30 minutes and although very small, mostly not making it to the toilet.
Any encouragement or suggestions would be appreciated. By the way, I am taking Imodium, Lomotil caused me bad belly aches and an up to 2 times per day of Metamucil. Thanks peeps for any advise.
You all take care.